t is a simple question; as a person who loves the idea of both, I thought I would make a list and would love to hear from others:
If I was a blackmailer:
- Can be done online.
- Discreet
- Perhaps I never need to reveal my ugly self
- After the line has been crossed, maybe I don't have to make an effort with social skills
- That feeling of responsibility for another.
- Feeling of connecting with another, their mind and life.
- Ability to do positive things (Yes, I get satisfied from making a positive change in someone)
- Ability to explore sexually
- To explore certain desires and open up my uncensored mind
- To explore that sadistic side
If I was blackmailed as an emotional masochist:
- The feeling of belonging to someone watching
- Someone looks over giving that advice/control like a mother/dad you may never have had
- Feeling the connection with someone watching over
- The fear, vulnerability and violation, something I personally desire to experience
- Feeling someone obsessing over you, and you can't say no.
- Feeling of complete powerlessness as if you cant say no.
- The risk, like constantly standing on the cliff edge
- The feeling of being used but knowing that someone may be getting satisfaction.
What do you all desire from this?