Heyho :)

I am Morgan, 23 year old girl from Germany and a long term friend of CnC in kink and dub-con and non-con in my roleplay or fiction. I wanted to branch out and try out blackmail as a play and wanted to see, what you can do and if you can make me hot and bothered with it. I am not looking for some roleplay, I am looking to give up real and incriminating information I am not okay with being posted publicly.

Or well, at least that was the state about a week ago. I have since then had quite a few pretty bad experiences with people here, if I lost contact or I never answered you I am sorry, because a few people just beat me so down on this kink I was for quite a while not even sure I wanted to engage with it at all!

So, let us do a positive spin and make a list of the things I have learned:

• I am looking to be... enticed to give up the information a bit. Get seduced to tell more then I should, and then getting that turned against me.
• I have a fem preference. I am not saying you guys can not message me and try, but I would much rather be blackmailed by a woman.
• I am good and okay with my friends being used against me. I am happy to have threats of public humiliation. I am even okay to give up my full name and address.
• I am not happy or okay with you trying to find me or pictures I have not given you of me!
• My workplace is off limits. I will write you where I work in general, but details and finding my work people is a no!
• I have a few images of mine you can tease out of me as blackmail collateral, but if you try and blackmail me into giving you more pictures, taking them in time for you or exposing myself on video for you, go do that to someone else. I have a controlled presence on the internet for a reason, and if there is an idiot out there on this server I will not ruin my life for them!
• My kinks and limits in kink are not overridden by blackmail. If you feel you can ignore my soft limits in what you get me to do because it is about blackmailing me, I feel you do not deserve to be here.
• Being available at all hours of day and night is not a thing I will do. I can not ruin my sleep because you are living in the US and horny for me at 3 a clock in the morning my time. I will not strip down during a meeting that is a video call because you find that hot in the moment! I will not just cancel on a friend last minute because you are horny. And I will not cancel my life plans for you, I will not move to another country, I will not give up my job because you have blackmail material!
• I need you to respect my limits. If we make a safeword I have learned I might not have it present immediately, so if I WITHDRAW CONSENT, using these words explicitly and maybe even post you the rules of the subreddit and you continue, I will see that as a break of trust that might not get you banned here but that will kill any chance of me ever engaging with you again!

And if you are curious: Yes, all of these come from actual experience I have had. Maybe I am expecting things to be different than the community standards. Maybe what you have so far shown me is the norm. Maybe I am not build for this. But please, if that is not the case, show me that this is not a representative experience. Ff someone compatible with me is out there, please reach out.

I am sorry it got a bit dark there at the end. I hope all of you have a wonderful time.