47 [m4M] #online - seeking micromanaging Dom for accountability

North & South American time zones only

I am looking for an attentive Dom to help me with accountability for sticking with a mostly established schedule.

I have ADHD and I struggle with motivation in a big way. A few years ago while serving a Dom online I accidently discovered that where I lacked motivation to change aspects of myself or to complete tasks when I was no longer the sole motivator, I was suddenly able to do things I never would have, and it was easy to find that motivation. This began my journey into TPE type micromanaging which has been unbelievably helpful.

I currently have a schedule and plan that for the most part works, I just need a Dom to enforce it.

So this is how it would work. I would share with you my google calendar and taskboard so you could see everything I am doing and all the tasks that I have scheduled in real time so you know when I have marked something as complete. Tasks require picture or video proof. Failure to accomplish tasks without a reason you find suitable would be met with punishments of your choosing as long as they do not cross established limits.

On top of the tasks I already have we could discuss things that you would like to add, such as daily rituals saying good morning and good night, bathroom control, mantras, wearing butt plugs and giving you control of my chastity keys, videos and pictures you want, live action play time…all up to you.

I have a strange sort of working situation. I live in Calgary AB (the closer to Calgary you are the better), but I work in Manitoba. ¾’s of the year I spend out at work on various work sites, literally sleeping at those work sites the entire time surrounded by hundreds of other workers. This slightly limits what I can do but not by a lot. I have my own room, my own bathroom, in a dorm. My general rotation for work is 4 weeks in, where I do not get a single day off, no weekends, no holidays, zero days off, and I work from 6 am to 6 pm every day, then I go home for 2 or 3 weeks.

My kinks are extensive and always evolve. The core kinks are TPE control, humiliation, ws, being locked up or locked in things (so chastity and collars and chains and cages and rubber suits and hoods, anything that locks on me that I cannot escape from it very much a turn on), degradation, being bullied, aftercare, & attention, to name a few. Admittedly I am also into blackmail, especially blackmail with positive results.

Hard Limits are: -Nothing that can sully my work relationships. I am a people leader and people expect a certain amount of decorum from me. -Consent must be fully understood.
-Excessive pain or gore. Don’t get me wrong, I like a bit of pain and I’ve recently discovered that I have a much higher pain tolerance than I thought I did. -No changes to my outer appearance that I don’t agree to. -No limiting my contact with other people. -No women.

I like a lot of communication, to me this means we talk when we can, I have a 12 hour a day job, I am busy just like everyone else, but disappearing without saying anything for days is not really my favourite

So if this interests you and you would like to know more or have questions, feel free to message me.