I am a single woman brand new to LS ... so new I haven't met anyone, watched or engaged yet (but I like what I see on the forums and websites 😈!) I've never been to a club or house party. Here's my deal: I simply want a one night stand with a single male but in a well monitored reputable setting safe from kidnap, rape or assault ... therefore, I want to do this in a highscale club (ie Trapeze ATL). It's the best setting I could think of.

I don't want a boyfriend, don't want to be a third, and I'm not poly. I'm not bi-curious but can play with a woman in a couple as long as the man in the couple is willing to do PIV. Woman play for me means kissing on the mouth, groping and fingering. However, my boundaries are no oral sex on either gender and fresh condoms always for PIV. No anal sex. Cleanly washed hands ... sorry, it's the health professional in me speaking out. 🤷🏽‍♀️

I prefer a single man but don't want to hook up outside of a reputable LS club.

I know single men join the clubs on certain nights. What do I need to look out for in choosing single men or a couple? Is what I'm asking for in terms of safe play too much (or too little) to make it worth someone's while to consider me?

Trying to get a sense of the culture for this ...