After seeing a honest and courageous post by a young sista I was more motivated to post. See I’ve come to embrace my “Layers” but it was not overnight, complete, or by chance. See I’m black man in the U.S. and I’m kind and caring but not punk or a pushover. I did grow wanting to appease ppl and not be bullied. Raised in da hood I grew up very stereotypical, come from a Military family (Army Brat) and didn’t always see or believe there was a way out. After many years of trauma I decided to be triumphant. I started mental health therapy 8 years ago and took seriously after a couple years and many failures/life lessons from every aspect of life. Once I did the universe connected me to some bomb ass therapist and I learned, accepted, and overcame certain struggles. Such as being eclectic, a bit mesenteric, geeky, empathetic, an ambivert, lover, fighter, being molested on multiple occasions as a child, frontal lobe dyslexia, bouts of depression ADD, PTSD, and am HSP.

So I share with all of us who are survivors and striving to turn tragedies in to triumph. Or just want to learn more so you can have a better understanding and softer heart. The is hope in manifesting a greater outcome. I’m elated to have found this forum, thanks for this reading this may it help someone then aspire you to inspire someone else.