A week ago my best friend told me she had feelings for me and she wanted to go slow, but she wanted to give us a try. I’ve been trying to let her lead things because I don’t want her to feel pressured or overwhelmed. I know the fact that she’s never been in a relationship with a women is overwhelming and if she’s actually serious she will pursue me. We had sex (she initiated it). It was good. It was great actually and she slept here the night after (again her choice). But since then she has been going out to the bar every night (lying about it or her intentions). One night she was getting sick, she was going to have one beer. She got home 2 hrs after the bar closed. Tonight she went out and turned her location off, but she posted on FB…. I just don’t know what to do. Because I never saw her like that, but now I do and I want this to work out… but a huge part of me feels like she may have feelings, but she isn’t ready for an actual relationship (let alone a girl on girl relationship). Advice anyone,