A message to you. The bi guy reading this. It's OK. There are some fucked up stigmas in this country. In basically all of western civilization, against bi guys. It hasn't always been that way though.

Maybe through most societies in the world, through most of human history, men have had sex with men. Even the bible was edited, fairly recently, to reflect negatively on guysex.

Touching another guy does not change your DNA. Sucking a cock will not change your fashion choices. Fucking a guy will not make you feminine. You will still be a man. It's OK.

Being a bi guy does not give you an excuse to cheat on your wife either. Just like being attracted to redheads does not give you permission the cheat on your brunette wife. But there are things you can do together.

If she is withdrawn it could be she's picking up on ques from you. Don't neglect her. Lift her up. Make her the focus of your fantasies and desires. A confident and sexy woman can be a partner to her man's exploration. The reality is too long to put in this short post, but it's possible.

Being a bi guy is a lot more common than anyone can say for sure. Having sexual attraction to cocks just might be a default condition for MOST men. I heard it all man. "I'm not attracted to men, just dicks" is probably the most common thing I hear these men say. And every one of them askes if they are unique and alone in the world.

I just want to tell you that it's OK. You can be attracted to cocks, want to jack off another guy, even take it in the ass, and still hunt and fish and drink beer around the bon fire. It doesn't make you weak. You are not broken. You are no less a man than the next guy. Because, chances are, that next guy? Yeah, he likes to suck cock too. 😏