Here's the scenario. I was in a long term relationship with this fabulous woman. We are best friends, but I had hid my bisexuality from her (and everyone). We decided that the relationship wouldn't work and so we broke up. At that time I decided to pursue my bi side some more. A mutual friend saw one of my ads and told her about it. I was outed.

So we ended up talking about it, she was quite surprised, but understanding. She had a lot of questions that she intermittently asked. And then the big question. She wanted to know if she could watch. I asked her if she would just want to watch, or if she would want to partake. She said she just wanted to watch, at least at first.

So this is really intriguing to me. I'm nervous and excited at the same time. Have any of you ever had a similar situation? Have you let your girlfriend/ wife/SO/fwb watch you with another guy? Any advice?