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Question about coming out as bi to sons in their 20s
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So.....

I'm married male, mid 50s, monogamous

Wife has known I am bi all along ("in denial" and hates it, really not into speaking about it) - had a brief period about 7/8 years ago when we spoke about it for a while but that has "gone back to sleep"

We have 2 sons in their mid 20s who "know but don't know" if that makes sense. Not a conversation for the dinner table but they would find it difficult to say they didn't have major suspicions. I have no sense that they are anything other than heterosexual

Anyway......how do I (properly) come out to them in a way that won't cause WW3?

Thoughts / experiences greatly appreciated!

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