Hey all. So I’m bi, and in a relationship with a woman. We are open, to a degree, in that I can occasionally hook up with men. We have rules surrounding that, which include talking to the potential hookup partner about STI risk, etc. i have frank and open conversations with my potential partners before I engage in any sexual activity. I am disappointed at how many married men there are who want to play around, but are doing it behind their wives backs. They are clearly bi and feel the need to explore that... which is fine... but they are basically cheating on their wives to do it. I have a problem with this and don’t hookup with these men. I understand that in many, or even most cases, men get married and later come out or want to explore bisexuality and don’t feel they can tell their wives. But why are some many people willing to cheat on their partners to get those experiences? Doesn’t there have to be a better way?