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Should I tell the man I am dating that I kinda recently found out I am into men?
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I am 29F and he is 32 years old. We have met while volunteering in the same project and we got along well immediately. He asked me on a date and it was fantastic, I had so much fun! We have been talking and seeing each other for about 3 months now and I really really am into him! I invited him to my house this weekend to cook and hangout but to be honest I just want to rip his clothes of and throw him into bed..buuut the thing is I am bisexual and I have only recently (about a year ago) discovered this.

I have only ever been with women and I think part of me always knew I was attracted to men too but I just always felt safer having sex and going on dates with girls and never really pursued my attraction to men.

Question is... should I tell him this?

Here is my worries in no particular order:

1) He is gonna be turned off my by inexperience (like idk even know how to give a bj.. I havebt even touched a dick)

2) He is gonna be turned ON by my inexperience and fetishize my inexperience & bisexuality (hahah mineis the first cock you touched kind of arrogance)

3) He is gonna have doubts about my attraction to men and be scared that I might be "going through a phase" and just experimenting with him...

What should I do? Like I really like him and I dont want to hide something from him. He is really sweet and funny and talkative in the best way and I feel like there is warm glowing light in my chest when I am with him.. so please help!

Oh also I have never been in a serious relationship before as well, so.... yeah... maybe I should just give up on the whole thing...

P.S. Also if you guys have any advice on how to give a bj that would be fantastic cause I am terrified of my teeth hurting him. Like logistically it looks like such a difficult thing to do :/ Can I even learn it at this age??

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