Gay but Bi-curious (maybe Homoflexible) context in my previous post - https://www.reddit.com/r/bisexual/s/Lg2tpFVRB0

Anyway someone told me to put some profiles on apps, try to meet women and jump right in but it’s been so difficult.

For starters all the apps that include women (the one I’ve mainly been using is Feeld) have like a matching system which kinda sucks and seems inconvenient. I like being able to just send an introduction and selfie see how it goes, like when I’m chatting on apps with guys.

Maybe it’s cause I’m picky with a rly certain type or in a weird situation but figured it wouldn’t be that hard since I’m right outside NYC.

I was thinking something like a threesome or just watching a couple would be nice as like a safety net starter since 1 on 1 might not be for me or just too much pressure idk. Like it’d be like guaranteed enjoyment either way is what I’m thinking lol.

Any advice?