I have started noticing things about a old friend. He is not as macho as I thought. He is taking baking lessons. He likes watching Hallmark Christmas movies. It goes on.

I get the Idea that he is lonely. When I see and talk to him I get a warm feeling towards him. I'm getting a vibe he has a warm feeling for me.I don't know if he is bisexual. I know he had a good marriage. His wife passed a year ago.

I guess I'm bisexual. I have been with men in my past. I never thought of it as a big deal. I haven't done anything with a guy in a long time. I'm bad at meeting guys for hook ups. I'd rather know a guy and do stuff. Thats one reason I haven't been with a guy for so long. I could see myself with him.

The big problem is I don't know if he is interested in that stuff. I value his friendship. I wouldn't want to ruin it by saying the wrong thing. I'm handy. He is not. I help him with little things around his house. Thats how we spend time together. Sometimes I get this feeling. But it might be me. His mind might be so far away from what I'm thinking. I could be 180 degrees off.

What can I do. What can I say. I can't think of anything thats not blatant. I want to say something that if he had sexual thaughts he could respond . And if I'm wrong he wouldn't know I'm interested in him that way. Is it even possible.

Any help would be much appreciated.