I [25M] moved to a new town and I finally feel like I am able to explore my bisexuality - however, curious to know if anyone has experienced a longing for something they’ve been told or feel isn’t possible with regard to their orientation? Let me explain - characteristic wise, I’m fit, 5”10, athletic, was in a frat etc; and honestly, this is also the kind of individual I’m attracted to. I’ve been told (in my search) this is nearly an impossibility to find - that if I’m lucky I’ll find a “DL bro” looking for an experience. Its created an intense sense of longing and sadness that I won’t be able to explore this side of me because the “archetype” I’m attracted to is only straight. I feel dissociated from showing this side of myself because I just have to silently watch and observe the type of person I find attractive, and it’s depressing to feel unable to experience this - it’s like crazy FOMO and idk what to do about it.

Honestly, just looking for some input, experience, reassurance? Discussion.