Alright I’m a closeted bi male (26m), discovered I was bi when I was 12 years ago, but always preferred and dated girls. I never had a crush on another dude, which is why it’s been easy to hide my sexuality, until I developed feelings for my friend (m23). We known each other for a year, I didn’t develop a crush on him until recently. He’s an attractive dude, skinny but fit because he likes working out and has a bit of an emo style to his appearance. Me and him just went through a breakup with other girls. We both been getting closer and talking about personal stuff such as our anxiety and relationship issues, slowly realizing how similar we are. Lately he has been making gay jokes about me, which I thought was just his sense of humor, but it’s been very constant. For example, I like working out too and posted a shirtless photo of my abs on Facebook and he commented, “let me touch you”. He also jokes about me getting backshots for my birthday, asks how big my cock is when I’m in the restroom, and sometimes likes to take pictures of me. There’s even times when I catch him staring at me with a smile, giving me full eye contact, but makes it seem like a joke. But the thing is, he mentions that he makes gay jokes to his other friends too, I guess as a way of justifying it. I’m not sure if he’s straight or bi, but it’s really eating me up right now. I have such a huge crush on him, I don’t know how to handle this situation, I never had a crush on another male, just women.