We are both trying to work out together what’s up. He knows he feels sexually attracted to men, but romantically and sexually attracted to me (AFAB, enby but fem presenting). Personally I believe he is bisexual unless he somehow has tricked himself into believing he loves me.

He has said before that he felt more comfortable in a sexual relationship with a man than a sexual relationship with a woman/his ex is the only reference(cis female). But then again she was an awful person to him.

After they broke up he began experimenting with a guy and felt better than with his ex. But once he met me he felt the most comfortable he had ever been. He still feels sexually attracted to men while dating me, but not other women and when watching porn exclusively watches gay porn.

He kinda feels like he’s gay and Im the exception, but still has no desire to be with anyone else, as he describes, he wants the rest of his life with me.

To him, there is no doubt he loves me, is attracted to me both emotionally and sexually, but is very confused as to why he doesn’t feel sexually attracted to any woman anymore besides me.

He has never had a romantic relationship with a man, just sexual encounters with them prior to me. I partially fear his lack of experience will eventually cause him to not know who he genuinely is having not experienced it, despite knowing he is comfortable with me.

I am bisexual myself and understand what he’s experiencing to a degree, but I’m just as confused as he is.

How can I help him discover who he is?

Does he love me or is it comphet?

Ask any questions if you feel not enough info is provided! I need advice😭