Note: I haven’t experimented or had sex with another guy yet. I know you don’t have to be completely one or the other (top or bottom) but it does seem like guys lean one way or the other. I just honestly can’t relate to a lot of the men married with wives or girlfriends saying they want to be bottom. I understand it but still find myself wanting to top with women AND men mostly. I don’t think I’d enjoy being a bottom- nothing feels pleasurable in that area and I don’t really have an attraction to trying to enjoy putting anything in that area. So would this mean I gravitate mostly towards that role? Or have you tops found that that has changed for you?