So I’m mid 40’s, Gen-X, I grew up essentially pre-internet. In those days lingerie (Victoria Secret, Fredrick’s of Hollywood, etc.) catalogs were as close as you could get to anything risqué (unless someone’s dad had a hidden porn collection, mine did not.) So a lingerie catalog was a hot commodity to an 80’s and 90’s kid. Any good one that found its way to our mailbox got… um diverted.

However, where I differed from a lot of guys is I fantasized about BEING the girls in the catalogs as much if not more than being WITH the girls in them. I’m not gender dysphoric or anything like that, I like being a guy and my guy… equipment. But there’s a part of me that is at once jealous and appreciative of the beauty of femininity. I guess that’s just a complicated aspect of my bisexuality, not sure if anyone else has similar feelings/experiences.