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Hey guys, this is my first time posting on here. I just wanted to ask you all a few questions. So I finally told my wife after 4 years of marriage that I am bisexual. I told her that I am hetero-romantic but bisexually. I was too scared to hurt her feelings so I wasn’t fully open about my preference for men over women sexually which I determined through watching porn—I’ve never been with a man. But I fantasize about men when me and my wife are having sex and when masturbating. I know I’m bi because I get turned on when eating my wife out and when looking at her naked or thinking about having sex with her. Both her and I see a couple’s therapist during a session I let our therapist know the situation, she recommended that I figure out what I want sexually albeit having sex with men, viewing porn, or being with a man altogether. I have no plan of leaving my wife but I can’t fathom living my entire life without having sex with men but also feel weird about coming home the next day to my wife after a night with a man. For me porn makes me want to suck a dick or get fucked by a man even more but I love my wife too much to leave her or even open our marriage only to explore my sexuality.
I think it’s healthy we are talking about it and maybe I need to be more open with her than ranting on Reddit but I guess all I’m seeking is any advice by anyone who has been in my situation, what did you do? I know basically moving forward is unique to me and my wife, but hearing similar stories helps.
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