My wife and I are in our 30s and are high school sweethearts. We have a great relationship, love each other immensely, yada yada yada.

However, I am bisexual and have never told her this fact about me. It is something that I started to feel in my early 20s, but buried it down and made the same old excuses of just being a young horny guy, etc. I feel that the fact that I’ve never been with a man doesn’t help me with my uncertainties. Either way, as I grow older I realize I am definitely bisexual and find both men and woman attractive.

I really want her to know, but my issue is since I have known her my entire adult life, I don’t know how to do it. I’m sure she’ll wonder what has changed, why I didn’t tell her earlier, etc. Honestly, I don’t have an answer to some of these difficult questions that I’m sure she’ll ask.

Anyone in the same boat? Any success stories? Love you all!