Update below….

While drinking on a trip with just me and my wife I expressed maybe I may be bi, and over the course of the night and into the next day while drinks were flowing little jokes and remarks were made and seemed to be taken light hearted.

Now months later we are going to counseling to work on our marriage, but after a conversation today while she’s with her family she’s basically told me that her biggest issue is that I am bi, and possibly doesn’t love me anymore and this is hard for her to accept, but has multiple gay girl friends and even has a best friend that is trans, I don’t know the best way to take this as she’s taking what I’ve opened up to her about as hurtful to her cause I’ve been hiding it without telling her, and basically has made me feel terrible for ever opening up and throws this and the fact that 2 yrs ago I’ve opened up about my crossdressing into my face, to the point I regret ever telling her anything and wish I could go back and never say a word! I guess what I’d like to know is if you’ve been in this situation what’s your advice to help me through this situation or how I can help her

Edit** I think some of it stemming from self issues as she’s expressed that she thinks some of my anger issues may stem from not being able to explore or express myself how she think I want to, in her words she thinks she’s holding me back, I want to express and have to her multiple times that I am happy at home, I don’t want to explore it, I don’t want to leave her, I don’t want her to let me go do anything, tbh doing something with her like a Strapon would be the best of both worlds (yes we’ve talked about this in the past so far no go) but I am truly trying to help her by giving her time i mean there is no rush for anything as like I’ve said I have never gave her ultimatums, or expectations or anything I have said I’m not looking for anything from her by her knowing