It's a question my wife asked her girlfriend and me last night.

We were watching TV last night when my wife blurted out, "Do you think we're kinky?" I sorta laughed but she said it was a semi serious question. My response was, "it probably depends on who you're talking to, straight couples would probably say we're kinky but I think bi couples like us probably think we are really into vanilla sex." Her girlfriend agreed saying, "we don't do rough sex, no humiliation, no bondage, no pain so, in a bi community, we might be considered vanilla."

My wife replied with, "Well we're all into things that maybe even bi couples might think are a bit kinky like we're heavy into voyeurism, even though we're bi we share each others partners and enjoy straight sex ." She gave me an example that when my friend and I make out she and her girlfriend love to watch and encourage. She asked if maybe that might be considerd kinky. Her girlfriend and I didn't think so but I asked if she was having buyers remorse...."Fuck NO!" was her reply :)