I am in need of help in coming out to my wife about my bisexuality and have started dropping vague hints to my wife that I might not be 100% hetrosexual.

I have been expressing it in a way to her that would probably be seen as more a questioning of my own self rather than coming straight out and telling it very much like it is. This is due to the fact I am so nervous about it and how she will react to it, in a way I have been sensing her reaction to these vague things. In example I have said that I think I might possibly be but I am very much not sure if I am or not. I have been largely putting it across that what I have read and spoken about with my counsellor is making me think like this but it very much could or could not be the case. I have not gone into depth about what I am feeling or what I want to act upon as I have said I didn't want to worry her about it because it might not be the case at all and didn't want to cause concern that I was working through it with my counsellor.

I get the impression from what she has said that she would be supportive if I was to come out that but she has said that if I wanted to explore the idea that was something else entirely which would have to be discussed.

I don't know where to go from here do I drop the bombshell and hope for the best or just keep dropping these hints which are so vague they could be seen as a lie to my actual true feelings. That in itself is eating me up I just want to tell her the whole truth but I'm so scared that I have got the wrong impression and it might be too much to handle.