Growing up, my sexuality was pretty vague. I was never really the type to have crushes or anything. Fast forward to 26, I’ve had a crazy crush on two straight guys (on separate occasions). It took me around two years to fully get over the first guy. I’m in the process of getting over the second. This is all new to me.

Falling for straight guys is so frustrating. Why does my brain (or heart?) do this to me? How do I program my brain to steer clear from them? I contacted a psychic reader about my situation asking why I keep falling for straight guys and he reframed it to “Why do you keep choosing love that doesn’t choose you back?” That got me all the way fucked up lol.

Any advice here?