I found this thread interesting

'Does anyone else hate the fact that bi porn is all “straight guy but secretly gay” and never the opposite?"

Although my wife and I often watch porn of all types, straight to gay men, we don't feel that it reflects reality, what people actually do and feel. Yes, we understand that there are lots of kinks and fantasies but we think most porn is not what we are into.

As an example, bisexual men porn is generally portrayed as guy being forced or humiliated by his wife or girlfriend and taken by some huge muscle bound tattoo laden multi pierced guy and treated fairly roughly. This is so far off what my wife and I and our new friend want and experience.

Gay men porn is we think, even more harsh, men fucking mens asses and fucking their throats like it's a punishment rather than what we feel, sensual and erotic.

We don't think it's uncommon in porn today whether it's gay, lesbian, bi, straight or anything inbetween. It seems though to follow the general violence in todays society.

Not to say there isn't some decent porn out there but it's hard to find. For my wife who has occasional sex with her girlfriend, me that has now finally lived out my fantasy of sex with another man, it's more about consentual sensual and erotic sex without intimidation, humiliation, overly aggressiveness and dominance. We don't harbor any dislike for those that prefer this type of sex but it seems much easier to find and it's not what we're into.

All that said, it's solely our opinion. One of our favorite porn sites and something that has become a big part of our sex life is a pegging site. I hope it's okay to post this link, we think the sensuality portrayed is beautiful. https://www.xvideos.com/channels/straponxxx