I'm really glad I joined this sub, I have learned so much from all the advice and comments. I'm way more confident than I was just a week or so ago. I learned that I'm not alone in my desire to have sex with another man and I truly believe it has made sex with my wife even better than it was just knowing she approves and wants to participate. I learned that being intimate with another guy can be and is erotic and sensual. My new male friend and I have talked about our relationship and niether of us wants a romantic partnership. We are two guys that simply have a lot in common and enjoy sex with each other. Though we have no desire to be a "couple" we or at least I learned I can be intimate with a man, I like the feeling of another mans naked body against mine and altough I thought I could never kiss another man, it turns out it is exciting and really added to my first experience. I learned I can now feel free to suck another mans penis, let him take my ass and as my wife says, be less timid, "You both know what you want, why be so timid?"

My friend and I went to a clinic and we were told the test results could be ready today so some celebration sex will be in order. :)

Thanks all of you for all the help!