Have you guys been thrown by growing up in a binary (you are gay or straight) world? I am almost 50 now, and really did not even think I might be bi until about 10 years ago. Now, it seems I periodically think about having sex with men, but for most of my life, I was not like this at all. Through my life, there are very few men I can remember having sexual attration to in real life, even if the fantasy of action with men is a turn on within the last 10 years or so, while my attraction to women always remains strong and consistent. In retrospect, as a boy, there may be one or two occurrences when i look back, may have been crushes, but since once I hit adolensce, my attration to girls became so strong, I just assumed I am 100% straight, since I was growing up in a binary world. Since I really didn't have strong bi desires until i was married, I also have not had much experience in real life, so sometimes it is hard to think whether I am more attracted by the fantasy, as opposed to the reality (I did once have a happy ending massage by a guy, which I did enjoy, but that is it). Again, I am married with kids now, and am not interested in messing up my marriage, so other experimentation is off the table. Just wondering about others' experiences.