Alright guys I’ve gone and done it. Put myself out there and have my first date with another man coming up. We met on a dating app, not Grindr, and have been chatting for a few weeks.

This will be the first time going on a date with a man and if we should continue the evening into the bedroom will be the first time with that as well.

I am excited but also super nervous. Forty years I’ve been on this planet, 26 of those I’ve known I am attracted to men and women, and 24 of this I’ve been with the same woman who is on board with me dating other men as long as I’m still giving her the affection, sexual, and emotional support she needs in our relationship. At no time have I allowed myself to openly show affection towards men outside the online dating world. I keep telling myself to just be the same as I would with a girl except I haven’t been on a first date with a girl in 24 years so that doesn’t help lol.

If y’all got any advice that’s be great. My biggest worry is getting catfished. Dude is hot so I keep asking myself is this for real lol.