Well today we'll have a discussion about our relationship, I told my wife I would never date a woman again if this marriage failed, we are on Rocky ground due to her daughter. She asked if I would date a man I said I've made out that was it but find men attractive and she already knew my fantasy of a mmf. She's fear full that I'm going to cheat with either sex but I have or showed any signs , I have chatted with other men but nothing . She told me she thought about being with a woman, I told her to go for it.

And when I say rocky I mean we live together there's no sex it's been 8 years her 17 year takes all our energy..

Edit: we did couples therapy for a year, everyone in our house was in therapy due to the 17 year old. They aren't allowed to be alone with the 2 younger kids.

Will have to see what this year brings we talked about expectations and what needs to change , told her I can't stay because of financial reasons.

Someone said throw her toys out , I wish that was an issue she doesn't pleasure herself never has