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I'm married. Have been for 30 years. I adore my wife, and on the rare occasion that I get to have sex with her it's incredible. But I no longer fantasize about her, or any other woman, when I masturbate. It is always about giving oral to men now. And more and more frequently it is more. I love sex with women. I just don't think about it much anymore.
I didn't mean to suggest that I haven't tried it. I have been with several guys in my life. But other than having a couple of guys join us in 3somes I haven't been with any other guys. You are right. No blasting from me. I agree strongly with your point.
You're right, through social media I have met MANY married men who's story aligns with mine. It's a fraught process to find potential partners, however. I'm pretty sure I have been in denial about my bisexuality, even though I experimented quite a bit when I was in school. It was easy to dismiss as drunk or horny college-boy behavior then.
In general the attention was mostly on her. I was put in a submissive role and I did service him, but it was always part of making her the center of attention.
She knows that I'm bi, and I think she is to the point where it would be a bit of a relief for me to go do my thing. At least in the abstract. But when names and faces become attached to the penis I'm with, I know it will be difficult for her.
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Nobody prepared me for this stage of my life. I am now more submissive, and just as feminine (at times) as my wife.