this is much more motivational if you read with this song playing

https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=pZ3b1a2OnhQ&si=Ai2JE8iHYHbEeVMC

I know you’ve been discarded, I know you’re in pain. You are resilient. Life is going to knock you down and you will fail. But the only time you truely fail is when you give up. You are a fighter. Don’t let a knockdown turn into a knockout. If you gained anything from this you gained learning and understanding. You gained wisdom. Don’t let your bipolar SO become your God. You were not born to serve your SO. You were meant to walk together in this life and show love as much as possible. What’s done is done. Your dynamics have changed. Your dream of a life together has shifted. Letting go is a language of love. It’s time to let go so that you can love yourself. A tree needs to endure the harsh winter to bear its fruit in the fall. You are in your winter. I know it’s hard. I know you dont understand why this happened to you. It’s okay to grieve. Don’t ask yourself “what if” ask yourself “what will you do when…” don’t be a victim, be a victor. Life is not over. Life is just starting. The true training starts when you are tired. Hold your integrity and your values close. Walk with them tightly through the storm. Sometimes the right decision is also the most painful. I believe in my heart we will all come out of this situation with victory.