He was m24 and knew what he wanted. I liked that about my first experience with a man, he was very direct and in control while he gave me the sloppiest head I’ve ever had. After 30 years of having sex with a submissive wife, I fell into submission for the first time and loved it. He was in control like I’d never experienced. As he got me closer to the edge, I grabbed his head and fucked his throat for a short time before falling back under his spell and letting him finish the job. Feeling myself let loose in his mouth was great but receiving my load when he thrust his tongue into my mouth was the best part. I didn’t waste time and his cock was deep in my throat like I’d always dreamed and it felt better than I ever imagined. I was in control now, every throb I felt while he was pressing against the back of my throat was happening because I made it happen. He was now under my spell… I’ve always loved pleasuring others before using them to get off but falling into submission and letting him have me as he desired was so erotic. Switching roles was so hot

Is this what is meant by being vers?