Advice needed. I think I am probably bisexual with a heavy sexual leaning towards women and a heavy romantic leaning towards men. However, I am also aware that due to complicated 'not quite over my last boyfriend' reasons I worry that I'm convincing myself of my attraction to men and that I am actually lesbian.
I've written a kind of experience list below, any thoughts/insights from your own experiences would be much appreciated!

- I get aroused easily looking at women (BOOBS!). My arousal to women is v intense, I tend to feel lower levels of arousal with any sexual experiences with men.

- I don't think I'm visually sexually attracted to men.

- I get deep crushes on men and have had several romantic relationships, I believe I am truly romantically attracted to men.

- I have very rarely felt like I had a romantic crush on a woman - probably 2 in my life

- When I kiss men I get fireworks, and can also get wet and feel tingly/aroused

- Kisses with women have so far felt quite neutral, though I haven't had many and just may not have been massively attracted to the people I was kissing.

-Sex with men has always been enjoyable, I get turned on by making out/touching etc but actually just looking at a naked man doesn't do anything for me.

-Sex with women so far has been more intensely arousing, but I've only had one night stands which I don't actually like, I think I need an emotional connection to enjoy myself. So they were fun but also felt kind of empty.

-Dates with men have always been more fun than with women, maybe due to following 'scripts' /men are flirtier etc but I think I've only had one date with a woman where I felt like I fancied her. That was 4 years ago.

-Random experience from today: I got invited to hang out with a male aquaintance this weekend (as friends) and I felt turned on?! Perhaps turned on by emotional intimacy? I don't fancy this person whatsoever so no idea what that was about...

I hope you lovely people can make more sense of my messy feelings than I can! x