I often feel like an imposter to be a femme who's primarily attracted to femmes. A small voice in my head says, "no, you just want to be really good friends. Or you really admire that type of girl." But no, I really just want to be a femme with a femme gf/wife and do girly things that are perfectly valid as romance. And I don't see femme x femme a lot in art either, which gets lonely. As though some small part of me still denies, 'It cant be romance unless someone has the 'masculine' role.' Or unless its a softie x a baddy, or some type of contrast. Perhaps it's just aesthetics of opposites attract? Lonely though. Even tomboy x tomboy seems more popular, or baddie type x baddie type.