Hello! I posted a similar question in another sub but wanted to try here too. I recently discovered/embraced that I’m bi and neither my husband nor I were surprised. It doesn’t change our monogamous marriage. When I decided to embrace this label, I was excited and wanted to tell friends. I told one friend and feel a little weird (like embarrassed?) about it. She was extremely supportive. My husband - since it didn’t feel like news to him - doesn’t really see why I would feel compelled to share. He also feels like people don’t have to “come out” - that it’s 2021 and people shouldn’t be assuming someone’s sexuality in the first place. I’m not sure why it feels important to me, or what my reason for telling friends would be. I’m generally a pretty private person. Just looking for others who have maybe been in my shoes and decided it was, or was not, “worth it” to share with others. Thank you :)