It's always been in the back of my mind but I never let myself acknowledge it. I was raised in a conservative home so I kept pushing it down. I'm 32 and after this last year learning more about my personality it just all of a sudden clicked after a random post/conversation. SO many memories keep popping up that make way more sense now. I came out to my husband and he has been so supportive and just solidified that I married the perfect person for me. We have an open line of communication as I process and are on the same page about staying monogamous.

I realize that in my position not much has to change. I'm in primarily straight spaces and can continue to pass as straight. But I love myself so much more now and knowing that people close to me won't ever know the true me is hard. I'd also love to have a community that gets me.

Anyone else in a similar position or have any advice?