In part I think it's just misogyny, with the idea that women simply aren't allowed to be desired carnally by anyone but a straight man or that women must be "pure."

I also think there's some misguided feminist idea that it's objectifying and therefore misogynistic and bad.

I kind of get a little jealous seeing how carelessly gay men point out what they find attractive, sexually/physically, in other men. I think it's reaaaally hard to find this in bisexual spaces towards women. I feel like everyone is afraid to come off as a sexual predator towards women or as just shallow. I also feel like when what people find attractive about women does come up, it's always pretty gender conforming stuff. What I mean is like, women have to be clean shaven everywhere, be "pretty," and it's always about how soft/gentle/loving women are. Meanwhile gay men will be like, "I LIKE COCK" or straight men will be like "I LOVE BOOBS."

Like why is women being attracted to women so de-sexualized and about following gender norms about women being demure and "the fairer sex" so to speak lmao. It's such an illusion. Guess what... I know what you are... I know you fart and I bet you've had diarrhea at least once in your life.

Not to start a conspiracy or anything, but it's really strange that a woman in her natural state (has body hair, doesn't wear makeup, doesn't style hair with any heat/products) is seen as so unattractive by a massive amount of people, both straight and lesbian/bisexual. But men aren't as unfairly judged for being in their natural state.

I know, I know, just surround yourself with different people or whatever. But it does kinda make me sad to see that the general culture doesn't really admire women's bodies until it's time for straight men to fuck them, and even then it's not their bodies that are really being admired but how their bodies fulfill men's needs.

Like bruhh how are women so objectified yet not sexualized in a genuine way at the same time. Am I crazy or am I crazy or am I crazy? what do you guys think??