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Just got told I’m for saying bi women in hetero-presenting relationships shouldn’t use HER for threesomes involving men.
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Am I wigging out on this? I’m a bi woman too.

I’m fine with women using them for strictly WLW arrangements if they’re upfront about being poly. I just think it’s not great to use it to arrange sex with men when it’s the one safe space for lesbians and sapphics who aren’t after that.

Edit: told im biphobic. Typo in title

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I once read on a Dudes profile on her that he was a Lezbro

I have no problems with poly or non mono women in relationships with cis men using HER to look for women for themselves but I get the major ick when they are looking for 3sums. There are specific apps that are more catered to those. Heck I enjoy being a 3rd but I use HER and other specifically dating apps to look for women just for me. No I don't want your dude included or involved. They take up so much of the market. Bumble in my area (nyc) is a shit show for that too

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