Hello all! I’ll just cut to the chase, I (22 afab/enby) have had a suspicion that I’ve been bi for a LONG time. Like I literally came out to my mom in 5th grade because I thought I was bi but I’ve gone back and forth on it since for a variety of reasons. And I’m saying “thought” because I’ve never actually had sex with a woman (not that that makes you invalid) and I’m scared to try.

Ive only ever dated/slept with men except for one instance in hs when I was with a girl, but it was very toxic for both of us and should not have happened in the first place and we never had sex. I’ve been hurt by a lot of people in my life, deeply. And I never want to hurt someone else, but would it be a bad thing to sleep with a woman just to try to confirm that intuition? I would make that intention known.