I (20F) genuinely don’t know what I’m doing wrong. I have and continue to put myself in places where I can find people who share the same interests and hobbies as me, and I’ve made friends that way. I don’t want to participate in online dating, so I generally try to meet people in person. Unfortunately, everyone I’ve ever liked has only seen me as a friend. I fell for my straight girl best friend in high school, and liked one of my guy friends upon starting college (we stopped hanging out often once he started suspecting that I liked him). Now, I’m starting to catch feelings for another one of my girl friends (21F) but I know she doesn’t see me that way since she treats me as more of a mentee. I seriously don’t know what to do; am I doomed to be in the friendzone with everyone forever?