hi folks, at the risk of sounding like a broken record, I’m genuinely so sad that my crush is on a man. I’ve spent so many years yearning for women, and suddenly, I have to put a pause on it to pursue this man. my body has a reaction to him, we’re starting to develop a vibe, and I just don’t know what to do. my head says no, but my subconscious says yes. my friends all tell me that the feeling will go away once I get to know him better. it’s such a weird feeling, like grieving a future with a woman. how do you all cope with this??? I know it should be the opposite and that I should celebrate getting to benefit from straight/straight-passing privilege.