As a bisexual woman I’ve always felt more compelled and more motivated to actively pursue women. Despite being very physically attracted to men at times (equally so to women). Still I find the yearning to settle down and find a wife. It’s how I always pictured my future. I think it’s because I finally realized that being attracted to women gives me the ability to be with someone who knows what it’s like.. to be a woman. With men it’s always been a constant struggle and frustration to get them to understand fully the experience of navigating the world as woman and our shared life experiences shaped inherently by society. Knowing I can be with someone who gets all of that and wont question it is so comforting it’s almost impossible to imagine dating without incorporating that. I’ve always felt emotionally disconnected when dating men and I think I finally understand why. But I also feel crazy and partially wrong for feeling this way. As many women navigate healthy wonderful relationships with men without needing that specific compatibility. Does this make any sense at all?