So, I’m relatively recently out (48F) and married to a man. I’m not publicly out because of various reasons I don’t want to go into. I met a woman in a married bi women’s forum, we hit it off and long story short, I have twice travelled 300 miles to meet her for sex, which has been absolutely amazing. My husband is fully aware and supportive. The problem is that we are falling for each other very, very hard and she wants us to cool it off for a while. I’m happy to do that because I don’t want to make life difficult for those around us. However, now I have had this experience, I realise that I need more. Not a relationship, but just pure animalistic sex with a woman (preferably one nearer to me). However, all I can find on dating sites is women looking for a relationship. I can’t commit to that. Is safe NSA lesbian dating/sex a myth? If not, where do you find it? (I’m just outside London if it helps).