I’m a 26 year old woman, it was just earlier this year that I realized that I’m bisexual. I’m currently engaged to my (male) fiancé, and my family is helping me with wedding planning. I love my dad and I know he loves and cares for me. So far I’ve only come out to my close friends, my mom, and my cousin. My grandparents don’t know I’m Bi, my dad, aunts, uncles, my other cousins also don’t know I’m Bi. For further context, my dad is a conservative Christian, I’m also a Christian. And my dad is very homophobic and has expressed anti-LGBTQ viewpoints, even saying homophobic stuff about my cousin and her girlfriend. How do I safely come out to my dad, without him either lecturing, yelling, disowning or overall dismissing my sexuality? I know it doesn’t invalidate my sexuality if I’m not “out” to my family, but my dad is an important person in my life and I feel like I should share this with him. What do I do?