I'm bi, and in a monogamous relationship with a guy, recently I came out to him because I felt it important to acknowledge that about myself, and honesty to myself and to those I love is important. He's told me I can explore that but I'm struggling with the fact I love him and want to be with him. I don't have the time or mental capacity to maintain multiple relationships and I don't think I can do just sex without also being able to explore love as part of that. I value love way more than sex, but there's that aspect of proving my identity with sex acts. Where is the space for love? I'm I weird, is not wanting to have one night stands with women I don't know make me weird ( I m not into that with anyone regardless of gender). Any discussion, experience or advice would be helpful.