Hi all. I'm (47F) recently realized I am bi, and came out to my straight hubby of 22 years who is accepting supportive (although he thought I came out to him years ago, maybe he saw something I wasn't able to fully come to terms with then.) We are generally very happy in our marriage and while he is supportive of my sexuality he is not interested in anything other than monogamy for us. He's got some insecurity and self esteem issues that would make it challenging. I'm not sure I would ever actually act on something with a woman given the opportunity, but I know that I am definitely attracted to women as well as men, and feel grief/loss that I may never have a chance to have any kind of relationship with a woman. Maybe things will change in time as our relationship evolves. I am hoping to find support and advice for mixed orientation couples that have made things work. There seem to be a lot of stories about cheating and relationships ending. I know there are positive outcomes out there and would love any advice or support that could help guide me down that path and avoid some of the pitfalls. Pretty much all of my friends are straight so I don't have any queer friends IRL who might be able to relate to what I'm going through. Thanks for listening.