F31. When I heard about the bi-cycle, it clicked that my on and off again experience was common to the bi experience. I didn't fully understand and thought hormone levels played a role in the attraction to women vs men. After research it seems more unlikely that this is the case.

My current theory for MY experience (NOT the bi-cycle general experience) is that my fluctuation of men/women has more to do with my period. Like maybe my sex drive in general just goes down when I'm PMSing and on my period. On my period, the thought of giving during sex just feels like so much work and less appealing.

I think it's a general feeling (not male/female leaning), although sometimes sex with men is less work so it feels easier. I haven't had a lot of sex with women and I've never been in a relationship with a woman, but I have gone on several dates and I feel more interest in women, just intimidated and afraid of real love.

I guess my question is does anyone relate or does it make me a fraud or worse a selfish lover?