Well will be in , 4 hours to go !so killing time as found my bi curious bucket list when checking for our list.

OK this is a heads up you been warned warning.i do have a habit of writing long posts that sometimes go off at a tangent before returning to my main point.which I can not confirm nor deny if these rumours are true or not!

I have been with my partner for around 10 years ,I'm UK guy and she Thai T-girl. neither of us when we met were looking for anything more than NSA fun,we were both a tick off each others list to be totally honest . I was a few years into the "curious" part of my life,moved to bangkok from Phuket , originally for 6-12 months with the intention of doing some computer courses but mainly to go all in and find out who I was sexually, ( I know sounds corny) i knew i wasn't straight or gay and the bisexual slot in my almost naive way seemed the best way to identify,even if it didnt fully fit either. Now if I have to slap a label on myself ,I would say I'm pansexual in matters if the heart and relationships and when it comes to sex I'm Omni sexual , nothing is off the menu, but with one caveat if you have a cock then you have my attention. OK my old man top tip,which does tie in I promise. I keep all my more personal stuff like photos and anything sexual that I don't want someone to accidentally find on my laptop or phone in my sex and hookups email account .safer and cheaper than the cloud.i have like a lot of people 4 or 5 email accounts each for different parts of my life to avoid the accidental email or forward of say my cock pictures to my friends elderly mother instead of an e- birthday card.her eyesite not great but don't think I can pass it off as a big candle and white flames. Well not easy sale either.

I know the more than one email isnt a revolutionary thought in the computer world,and won't save your life ,maybe some embarrassing explanations ,it works for me and sometimes simple and low tech is ok.

So was looking in my sex only email account found our bucket list we decided on 10 years ago.with her top fantasy still there not crossed off ,almost forgotten about . And also found my bi curious list ,put the two side by side and my curious list compared to our couple list did make my partner laugh .massive leap from the curious to couple bucket list . And there was the small ladyboy/ T-girl section 4 or 5 things nothing that I'd even blink at now but then was a had to try first time deal with my gay only section and a few more very compartmentalized sections. In the ladyboy section there she was represented. Item 11 say yes to first T-girl in Bangkok, who is real person who not wanting to get paid ( but after 6 months paying a freelancer / hooker option now more than ok haha)who offers you a blowjob. My main rule or guideline as long as some kind of chemistry on whatever level then I'm interested as long as some kind of click or connection, physical, mental,sexual ,whatever as long as there something then it's a yes is the answer I try to give.if it's on my check list then great,if something I'm into or thought about trying then also great,if something I've never tried,thought about or heard of then persuade me ,as long as it's not some shady attempt to get me into a gimp suit and end up on a slow boat to a hardcore underground sex club destination unknown.

Anyway when me and my partner got together neither thinking this going to be anything too serious,was more fuck buddies couple/friends style. She was great at finding guys who curious about the Thai ladyboys (she and her friends all prefer being called T-girl) to them the ladyboys were mainly the sex at a price,where the tgirls all have normal everyday jobs and profession's,my partner earns way more than I do ,works in fashion. And meets guys for fun not money.which of course the new and curious types love. It does confuse me and at times make me laugh at the guys who say I don't pay for sex , why should I etc etc well two important points they might of not thought about 1 your 20 years older , she is a smoking hot transgender or female beauty , that is a 9 out of 10 all day every day , and you well at best 5 or maybe 6 if you charming and have a great personality. The only thing you have in your favour is your wallet. And most important point I think is you don't pay for the sex , whatever the gender etc what u pay for is then to leave drama free after you have cum! But just a personal view , not a bonafide Wikipedia fact haha. So the no money fun only t-girls do well in the hunt for curious guys, and when it comes to a horny Thai tgirl, ladyboy transgender person or whatever there chosen way they prefer to identify as , horny and on the hunt,they the Jedi masters,cocks instead of lightsabers . I personally love the majority of the transgender community in Bangkok as they more level headed and in control , than most of the other genders . Gay Bangkok take notes , no need for drama or a scene, just accept and move on... Ok well I I have nearly killed enough time , before our guests arrive, I'm not going to go into the last thing on the list which is one of her top 3 fantasies on the list or the reward I get in return if everything goes the way she hopes, just look on my profile there are I think only 2 posts, one when we first got together and the other one if you want to know, written when I was still deciding to say yes or not to tonight. But in all honesty I actually am really up for it, more than she knows, because well this way I get the bonus kudos points and better reward haha. Ok this post not so super hot but can't all be just sex? Can't it not ? Anyway will Finnish off with a few highlights of the list we made at the start when we realized that we both had same mindset about sex. Sex is just sex , it's just fun or should be , love is a whole different separate thing. Neither of us are the jealous type, sex is just sex, when we started our list , was still in the getting to fully know each other stage but u can see as the months past by that by the end if the first year a lot of the early things were done and dusted and now a far more intense selection, which were part impossible dream not likely to ever happen and part seeing who could get what on the list, we do love the game of it all, getting other to agree to something when they at a point they like to say yes or ok to try it . She did at this stage had a lot more on the list than I did but was mainly because I was up for it too, just make them work for it and see what u can get in return haha.ok the first 10 items on the initial list, She wanted a threesome were she was in the middle and spit roasted, as had a few guys say yes but in reality never had 2 turn up at same time. Her only terms were as she was getting the double team spit roast which of course I was interested in ( who isn't ) and the guy she had lined up was a definite show up guy, she had met him 2 times before and described him as a dependable guy who would do as she had requested before hand in her terms , but he a bit beige nice dependable but not super hot times but will happen times. Her terms as my first time with her and meeting was we had to play with each other's cock, mutual wank style and suck each other before we could do anything with her Fair I thought , plus she was just checking I was actually real and genuinely up for doing all we had talked about. After the third meeting with guys shevno longer needed to test so much ! He turned up I answered the door , friendly polite guy not nervous no weird vibes ,she was in bedroom picking porn she wanted in back ground which was gay porn hand jobs and oral to start which was her obvious reminder haha , although she sat between us to start wanking us both not for more than a few minutes before moving to other side of me and after placing our hands on each others cocks,she had made sure of directing rights for us two at the start and said to other guy suck my boyfriend so I can watch ,he will suck u later in return,he lent forward over my cock. She pushed his head down and made sure he was sucking well.i still wanking his cock my partner also started playing with his cock,making him feel like centre of attention while he was sucking me She started sucking and licking his cock and balls told him to stop sucking me and watching her and to wank me. Fairly quickly she stopped sucking him and I had moved In closer for a better view ,she just said your turn and moved my head so I was hovering above,slight push down to make sure my mouth was on his cock then started sucking him groaning and her watching and smiling. He started to manoeuvre on to his side to suck my partner who moved her cock closer to mine and he just switched between the two,until she said stop as I think she was close to Cumming,got into a all 4 s doggy position me at back him at the front and both slide in me into her very tight but hot as hell ass him pushing her head down on his cock The rest was a kinda blur she had changed on too her back me holding her legs in air still balls deep in her ass him now just enjoying a chilled blowjob,and eventually 69 with her both sucking his face so close to my cock sliding in and out of her She did somehow manoeuvre his mouth and my cock together and held his head from behind I could face fuck him for a little bit her sucking him well so he didn't mind ,I saw her lift hand off his head and give me the signal he was about to blow and to make sure I did too .she wanking herself hard to try and cum in his face while he sucking me.she came before him and perfect cum shot to my cock and his face.she got out from under him and wanked him from behind I came half in mouth rest face chin everywhere she wanking him hard ,but he not cum until she got bit bored and slid a finger in his ass immediate eruption onto bed sheets .and then the usual so I found out ,got dressed and few minutes later and Ty and goodbye. Ok well I just got message they on there way so rest of this will have to wait, go read my other post if u want to know ,or not up to you I'm gone .laters