My wife and I are in a great place - over the past year we have come to a point in our relationship where we are exploring so many more things sexually. My experiences are diverse and many prior to our marriage while here were considerably less and much more traditional. We’ve been exploring online for about a year now, she’s enjoying meeting guys online and being sexy with them (being a little slutty online - she loves it) and occasionally us chatting with couples (so not easy to find those connections).

We are ready to move forward with something in person an we’ve decided on meeting a guy who is bisexual for both of us to enjoy completely. We were hoping for sone advice and thoughts on making this step. We’ve fantasized about it a lot, so I think we are both ready and wanting the experience together.

Our questions include… How best to find the guy? On Reddit or an app or dating site? Any do’s or dont’s while the three of us are together? Overall view on this type of experience for those who have done this?

As a clarification, she has always known I am bi and have had experiences like this previously (but quite awhile ago).

Thanks for your help and thoughts!