This is a long shot, but worth the shot.

I'm 38M, recently divorced and seeking to experiment with my bi curiosity. I am VERY picky and looking for something specific. I am willing to wait for the right person and situation - but looks & dick size are far from the most important. Please read below and DM me if you're interested.

What I'm looking for:

A similarly minded bi curious male with little to no experience with men
Clean & Hygienic - THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT
Willing to get STD tested prior to meeting
Willing to take things slow, try things with no pressure, and be non judgmental with each other
Decent looking (not too picky here, but mutual attraction is important)
Average penis size preferred

Ideal situation / fantasy:
We'd start by chatting online, including video chats to establish trust and comfort
Then we'd meet, either at a bar or one of our places
We'd share some drinks / 420 / party / etc to get comfortable
Watch some porn together and JO
From there, it'd all depend on how things go, but only when/if we're both comfortable
I'm not looking for a ONS / hookup
I'm also not looking for a boyfriend
I'd like to find a FWB / discrete buddy to experiment with
Discreteness would be a requirement

About me:

38 white male
5'11", 210lbs
Dad bod, but still muscular and athletic
Pretty hairy, but I trim and maintain
Decent looking - far from a model but also far from repulsive
6" cut cock that I've been told is "nice"
Masculine but not weird about it
Clean & Hygienic - this is VERY important to me
Discrete and trustworthy
Not into any excessive pain, bodily fluids, scat, blood, etc
(otherwise pretty open minded)